Sunday, 24 January 2016

For Sisters Only| How To Understand And Love Your Man More.


Love is something that just happens like magic, and most times, women wonder why they can't understand their men though they are humans too.
Just try this tips which i know work...



 While men and women both are truly from Earth, it can be very difficult to understand each other properly. Women are more emotional true yeah!?
while men think more with logic. 
For this reason, communications can get mixed up and make things difficult and tense for the both of them. If you're a woman who is having a difficult time understanding your man, you are not alone. Millions of women just like you have the same problem. The good news is that you don't  have to ship him off to another planet--you can understand your man.Below are some rules which has woorked for many and still works for a lot of women, don't let the Valentine's day pass you by, we believe if you take these rules seriousy it will rekindle that fire burning like you just met your partner. 



1.DON’T TRY TO CONTROL HIM

Know that men need space, yes they do need space sister! Men are not so different from us women in this way. Most men need their space because it allows them the opportunity to unwind. Think about this...you're at the office all day and you have to smile and be happy and make sure all the work is completed by a certain time. When you get home, you just want to kick off those high heels, get into something cozy and relax. It's similar with men - they have spent so much time lugging around responsibility, trying to be in tune with you and taking care of other things that their space gives them a chance to unbutton their fly, burp and relax.

2. MEN ARE HUMANS LIKE US
 Understand that men are not robots.(Yes please they are not Robots) While society expects a man to be strong all the time, it's just not possible. Men are humans too. They will get tired, sad, upset, cranky and moody sometimes, we all do have a bad day sometimes right? This is just a fact of life. The best thing you can do for your man at this time is allow it to happen and know it will pass. When he's cranky, moody, or whiny - just pretend like he's sick or drunk. Ask if there is anything you can do for him and if not, leave him alone to sleep it off.

3.THEY ARE OUR PET (It's a FACT so don't Deny It)
  Understand that your man will not always understand you. Men are often like children. They don't really understand what's going on in your mind and it's very difficult to be subtle with them. If you want something or you feel a certain way, you're most likely going to have to come right out and tell him. Women often try to give hints and when the men don't pick up on them, the women become frustrated and angry that their hints are going unnoticed. Most of the time, it's not intentional. Be plainer and speak in a way so that you can be understood.


4. UNDERSTAND THEM
  Realize that men are not in the Movies or some fairy tale stories lol... While women long for those men who are super-romantic and always know the right thing to say, most of the time, they just don't exist. Men often mean to be sweet and end up sounding like donkeys - but it's up to you to read between the lines. Understand how your individual man does sweet things and displays his love for you. When you understand this, you'll be much happier because you'll recognize that he really is romantic a lot more than it seems...if you can understand that!

5.BE ROMANTIC (Yes Sisters Please try to BE!)
It is not only women who need romance. Men also need their women to be romantic as it keeps the relationship fresh and exciting.   Do not stop doing the same things that made your man happy when you first met, for example, looking after yourself, taking long walks in the park, holding hands, going out together, etc.

     

6. RESPECT HIM
(Ladies this is on a serious note.) Just as we require respect, every man needs to be respected when in private and in public.  This includes talking to him in the same way that you would like to be spoken to.  Where there is a marriage, allow him to be the man of the house and assume his role as head of the family.

7.DON'T NAG (TRY, I know you can!)    
Sometimes women nag too much, which often leads to resentment and negativity in the relationship.  Communication takes two, thus women should listen more instead of talking or nagging too much. Better communication results in better understanding of your man’s needs in the relationship.  Also, realise that men are not always ready to talk about issues immediately, so do not assume that if you are ready to talk that he is.  Approach the subject and if he is not ready to talk, give him the time and space until he is ready.  Sometimes as women we get impatient waiting for ‘the talk’, but find something positive to get your mind off it, for example, read a positive book or do something else you enjoy.nagging wives pay attention to this!


8.APPRECIATE HIM
 Appreciate him. Even just a simple “thank you” will be music to his ears. This will let him know that you do recognise all his efforts, whether big or small, and that you believe that his contribution to your life, the family and even to society is significant.  Even a simple “good morning/good afternoon or hi dear, how has your day been?” shows that you have been thinking of him.  There is nothing worse than coming home to be greeted by a moody face and a frown. Even where there is something bothering you, wait to talk about it calmly.

        
9.SUPPORT HIM     
Support and encourage your man in his dreams and ambitions.  A relationship is strengthened further when there is mutual support, understanding and respect of each other’s dreams.  It often leads to each other's dreams being fulfilled even quicker.  If you do not support your man’s dreams, particularly where you have just met, it may be best to withdraw yourself from romantic involvement because it is impossible to change someone and/or the desires of their heart.

10.PUT GOD FIRST (The G-Factor)
God loves and encourages relationships and when you put God and learning to develop a good relationship with Him first, then this will benefit any relationship that you are in.  Pray together with/for your man and attend church together.  Putting God first in your relationship will open an intimate avenue for you to learn the desires of each others hearts and the things that concern each of you.  There is also much spiritual guidance on how to have a healthier and happier relationship.
 Ok my ladies hope this helps and leave your comment in the comment box, we'll love to read from you!
                            
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2 comments:

  1. So many good points in this post. Nagging doesn't help issues. It only makes matters worse. And putting God first is the most important. Jesus is the best foundation that can be laid in a relationship.

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